meet elizabeth jankowski : the woman behind scarlett’s secret – sxo
Welcome to Scarlett’s Secret, an online intimate lifestyle boutique created by Elizabeth Jankowski, an entrepreneur, creator, and self-love advocate based in Eugene, Oregon.
You may know me as Scarlett.
Scarlett’s Secret was created from a simple belief: every body deserves to feel confident, comfortable, desired, and completely at home in itself.
That belief is at the heart of everything I am building with SXO.
What is scarlett’s secret?
Scarlett’s Secret is an online intimate lifestyle boutique offering thoughtfully selected products for self-expression, confidence, intimacy, and feeling good in your own skin.
From lingerie and intimate apparel to bedroom essentials, intimate wellness, accessories, and more. My goal is to create a shopping experience that feels welcoming rather than intimidating.
This isn’t about fitting into someone else’s idea of what your body should look like: It’s about finding what makes you feel good.
why scarlett’s secret was created
I created SXO – Scarlett’s Secret as more than an online store.
I wanted to build a brand that celebrates individuality.
Bodies are different. Relationships are different. Desires are different. Confidence looks different on everyone.
And honestly, I believe there should be a place where people can explore those things without judgement.
Whether you’re shopping for yourself, your partner, a special occasion, or simply something that makes you feel a little more confident, Scarlett’s Secret is designed to make that experience comfortable, personal, and empowering.
scarlett’s secret in eugene, oregon
I am proud to build Scarlett’s Secret from Eugene, Oregon my rooted area while serving customers online throughout the United States.
Although SXO is an online boutique, Eugene is an important part of my story and the place where I am building this brand and business.
My goal is to grow Scarlett’s Secret into a recognizable intimate lifestyle brand that people connect with far beyond Oregon.
meet elizabeth
Behind the Scarlett name is Elizabeth Jankowski.
I’m an entrepreneur, creator, and Self Love Empowerment Advocate who believes that confidence starts with reconnecting with yourself.
My work extends beyond Scarlett’s Secret. Through my personal platform Honestly Libby, I create content centered around self-love, personal growth, confidence, motivation, and making life good again with a change of your mindset.
Scarlett’s Secret is where those ideas meet intimate wellness, lingerie, self-expression, and personal confidence.
the story behind scarlett’s secret
Scarlett’s biggest secret is actually pretty simple: Scarlett was born from finding my confidence again.
After my divorce in 2024, my confidence took a major hit. For a while, I had to learn how to see myself differently and reconnect with the woman I was underneath everything I had been through.
One of the ways I started rebuilding that confidence was through lingerie pieces – not because I needed anyone else’s approval, but because I wanted to feel good in my own body again. I wanted to look in the mirror and see a woman who felt confident, sexy, feminine, and completely comfortable being herself; by herself.
And something happened.
The more I allowed myself to dress for me, the more my confidence started coming back.
Lingerie became more than something I wore for someone else. It became a reminder that I could choose how I wanted to feel about myself.
That feeling is a huge part of why I created Scarlett’s Secret.
I want every body and every person to have the opportunity to experience that same feeling – the confidence that comes from finding something that makes you look in the mirror and think, “Damn, I feel good.”
Whether you’re rebuilding your confidence after a major life change, celebrating yourself, exploring your personal style, reconnecting with your sensuality, or simply buying something because you love it, you deserve to feel good in your own skin – that’s what makes life good.
That’s the feeling I wanted Scarlett’s Secret to create.
And that’s the secret behind SXO.
more than a store
SXO stands for more than products.
It represents a mindset:
Empowering Any & Every : Body.
Every body has a story.
Every perso deserves to feel comfortable in their own skin.
And everyone deserves permission to discover what makes them feel confident, connected, and alive.
That’s the secret.
welcome to scarlett’s secret
Whether you found me through social media, my podcast, searched for Scarlett’s Secret, discovered SXO, or simply stumbled across the site, I’m glad you’re here.
Thank you for supporting a growing woman-owned brand built from Eugene, Oregon.
Welcome to Scarlett’s Secret
-Elizabeth Jankowski
Founder, Scarlett’s Secret / SXO – Eugene, Oregon
Empowering Any & Every : Body.
